Instinctive doula support for a calm and powerful experience.

Embodied doula support and birth preparation rooted in connection, grounding and intuition.

"We found Bonnie to be incredibly warm, knowledgeable, wise and able to hold our thoughts and feelings in a confident and calm way".

Intuitive and emotionally grounded doula support
and birth preparation. 

I will journey with you through life's thresholds, and the tender spaces in between. 

I support people to meet profound transitions with presence, trust and awareness. Whether preparing for labour and birth, being held through early parenthood or supported at the end of life, my work centres on being rather than doing. My care is grounded in building a relationship, creating comfort and safety in the body, confidence in intuition, steadiness in the nervous system, and space to listen inward.  

I weave together intuitive, embodied and reflective practices with information, decision making skills, advocacy and practical support. If you are looking to feel held, heard and truly supported through your journey then you are in the right place. 

Birth is not something you can think your way through. 

It’s something you breathe, feel and move through with your whole body and soul. But in order to get to that place, you need to feel truly safe. 

If you’re here, you may already sense that preparing for birth is about more than learning information or creating the perfect birth plan. You may be longing to feel safe in your body, steady in your nervous system, and deeply connected to yourself, your baby and your partner. You may have experienced a previous birth, or moments in this pregnancy where you felt unsafe, unsupported or disrespected and are searching for a gentle, empowered and healing path forwards.

I offer doula support and embodied birth preparation that centres feelings over fear, trust over technique, integration over information.

 

My Approach

Much of modern antenatal education focuses on gaining information, such as stages of labour, options, decisions and plans, and while this information is absolutely essential, it doesn’t always translate into confidence or calm when labour becomes intense, or when plans have to change. 

My work as a doula supports you to integrate this learning into your body and nervous system, so that when birth unfolds, you don’t need to remember what to do, you can surrender, trust your body and follow your intuition.

My presence in the birth room is an invitation to center yourself in your experience, to stay present and grounded through intensity, to ask for what you need, and to never lose sight of your own power. 

 

How This Feels:

"We look back on our birth with a huge amount of love and joy, and it was such a comfort and blessing to have you here". 

"Having you by my side helped me navigate tough decisions to manifest the best birth I could have imagined, feeling powerful and understood throughout".

"I felt informed and supported, and that my decisions were my own". 

"You helped us feel so calm and supported, couldn't have asked for more". 

"Our second birth experience with your support was so positive and healing"  

"I'm feeling so excited for baby to come now we've talked through the birth set up- I can really visualise it now". 

"I feel so much more settled and prepared for it all". 

 

Who This Is For:

You see birth as a profound physical, emotional and spiritual transition, which should be treated with respect and reverence. 

You’re drawn to holistic, embodied or spiritual approaches to birth (and life!)

You want to feel truly prepared rather than simply well-informed.

You value emotional safety, depth and connection.

You’re open to breath work, body-based practices and intuitive exploration, even if you have little or no experience of these things.  

 

Ways to Work Together: 

Full doula support throughout pregnancy, birth and early postpartum.

Intuitive and body based birth preparation sessions, in person or online.

Mother blessing ceremonies and celebrations.

Gentle, relaxing  and down to earth pregnancy group 'The Great Birth Club'. 

Postnatal integration and Closing the Bones rituals

Coming soon: Pregnancy Massage.

Each offering is rooted in presence, connection and respect for your whole self, and your body’s innate wisdom.

 

If you are preparing for birth, I am here to offer you a gentle Invitation:

You don’t need to fix yourself.

You don’t need to master birth.

You already carry deep wisdom within you.

My role is to help you slow down, listen inward, and prepare for birth in a way that feels grounded, connected and true to you.

 

Begin your embodied journey by booking a call here or explore the website to discover details of my services. 

Read my blog post "The Power of Presence: how Doula Support Transforms the Birth Experience" here.

Testimonials

To read many  more five star reviews, head to my Google page

Birth Doula

"Bonnie was highly recommended to me from my sister who also had Bonnie as her doula. I’m a first time mum and I was anxious and scared about my journey ahead. Even in a difficult situation I felt strong, I knew what I wanted in my labour, had the courage to speak up knowing Bonnie & my partner were by my side.  Not only did she provide knowledge but also love and care like I knew her for years prior. We brought our beautiful daughter into the world as peacefully as possible"

Georgina, 2025

Birth Doula

Bonnie is an incredible doula and wonderful person to have by your side through pregnancy and birth. She helped us navigate antenatal challenges with information to make decisions right for me and my baby, with caring words and confidence at all the right moments. Bonnie was calm and reassuring, has a great sense of humour, and was always led by what I needed which absolutely helped create a beautiful home birth experience with memories that will last a life time. 

Hollie, 2023

Postnatal Doula

I was fortunate enough to have Bonnie as my postnatal doula after the birth of my little girl, as well as to have some very helpful conversations with Bonnie during my pregnancy. From the moment I met her I knew she was the doula for me. She has a warmth and air of calm about her that put me at ease instantly. She brought delicious food, did  jobs about the house, supported me on a challenging feeding journey and held space for me during my transition to motherhood.

Beth, 2025

Birth Doula

We reached out to Bonnie after a previous difficult birth . Bonnie helped us to prepare, and create a thorough birth plan to avoid another traumatic birth. Nothing was too much trouble and there was no judgement on any of our wishes. With the birth prep, and hypnobirthing we felt better prepared to bring our third son into the world and I felt relaxed and calm leading up to the birth. Having Bonnie at the birth gave me and my husband reassurance that we would be listened to and our wishes acknowledged. As a result we had a beautiful healing birth and having Bonnie on our journey was the best decision we made. 

Megan, 2023.

Birth Doula

We knew we wanted to book Bonnie with the aim of having a more positive birth experience this time around. Bonnie made sure I went into labour feeling prepared, was a fountain of knowledge when having medical team discussions (baby was late and we were discussing plans) and supported us to have the most AMAZING birth - where I was in control and able to encourage my body to do its thing! We really couldn’t have asked for any more.

Meena, 2024

Birth Prep

My wife and I recently completed a hypnobirthing course with Bonnie. I went into this with a strong desire to support my wife but also feeling somewhat cynical because of the name. Bonnie very quickly put me at ease and alleviated fears of this being "hippy woo woo"! She is highly knowledgeable and has a warm and calming manne. She clearly explained the facts of labour, including the hormones that drive each stage, and what I can do as the birth partner to support my wife. We have all the tools and knowledge we need to create our birth plan.

Sky, 2024

Get to know your doula

'Bonnie was always there, supporting me at every step along the way'. 

Nadia, 2021

Bonnie Stack

Mother of two wildlings.
Nature lover.
Comfort seeker.
Advocate, friend, compassionate listener.

Let's get to know each other.

I live in a small village between Aylsham and North Walsham, with my husband, our two children, and two cats. 

I usually hover between two states, either snuggled up in my fluffy socks with a cuppa, or embracing all weather in the great outdoors, dragging the kids along for the ride! I can often be found in the sea, pool or sauna, or stretching out on my yoga mat. In this season of my life, I enjoy movement for the delicious feelings in my body and the calm in my mind, rather than seeking peak fitness! 

I feel a deep connection with the natural world, and weave the seasons and cycles gently into my work and my life.  

I'm a big charity shop and secondhand fan! I make it my mission to circulate the old rather than consuming new. I find joy uncovering hidden gems; knowing that items had a story before their time with me. 

My journey into this work began with grief.

My mum died in my early 20s, and whilst this was the saddest, hardest thing I have ever had to endure, it was also a transformative, gentle and meaningful experience.  As I was processing my grief, I found yoga, and it held me through a time when words and thinking weren’t enough. 

It wasn't long after Mum died that I got married, and had my babies. The raw experience of loss, and the grief I was still feeling shaped my births, and guided me to seek a deeper level of support, and care for myself in a way I had never imagined I was capable of before. 

Over the years since, I have explored other healing and somatic modalities, and through movement, breath, touch, sound and stillness, I have learnt how emotions can move through the body rather than being held in tension or suppressed by my mind. The body holds and remembers our experiences, fears and emotions, and it also knows how to process them when given the right conditions.

I weave other tools into my life and my work such as mindfulness, visualisation, journalling, and being held in sacred and intentional spaces, such as women’s circles and retreats, and I feel and witness the huge benefits of these rich and varied practices. It is my honour, and I believe my purpose, to share these practices and gifts with others, alongside emotional and practical support as a doula. 

My own Births as Embodied Experiences

As I prepared for my own births, I discovered hypnobirthing, and experienced first-hand how mind, body and soul preparation gave me so much more than information alone could. Birth asked me to surrender into sensation and intensity, listen to my intuition and allow my body to lead. 

My births were both incredibly powerful, joyful and beautiful, as well as the hardest and most intense transformations I could ever imagine. I struggled with breastfeeding and had to draw on every shred of determination and resilience to meet my breastfeeding goals through a huge number of challenges. 

Through this journey I learned more than I could ever imagine, not just about birth, breastfeeding and motherhood, but about myself, my capacity for love and endurance, and the beauty and power of having deeply dedvoted support through intense and transitional moments. 

The Value of Support 

I knew that for me, a strong support system would be essential to my feeling of safety. I was acutely aware of a tangible absence where my mum should have been, so I filled the gap as best as I could. I registered with a continuity of care midwife, and sought support from a doula who I trusted and felt deeply connected with, and my partner prepared alongside me. My team’s commitment and understanding of my priorities was invaluable, and while continuity of clinical carer is now hard to come by in NHS maternity services, I get to know your needs and wishes deeply, and offer familiar, grounding presence in the birth room, giving you encouragement, emotional and practical support and advocacy when needed; always led by you. 

Birth as empowering, fulfilling and joful

Without any rose tinted glasses, and a full acknowledgement of how intense (absolutely hardcore!) my births were, I was able to experience birth as exquisite, powerful, and truly divine! My hope is that everyone finds their own way to access their innate power, and experiences a powerful, joyful and transformational birth. I have supported births along the full spectrum, from freebirth to planned Caesarian section, and pretty much everything in between. I know it is possible, and life changing, to go into birth with a deep sense of trust, power and emotional safety, and to have an empowering and satisfying experience with all types of birth.

From Healthcare to Heart-Led Work

Alongside my personal journey, I spent over a decade within the NHS as a specialist speech and language therapist, working in the acute medical setting with adults who have swallowing and communication difficulties. This often involved supporting complex decision making, explaining complex information in a clear and helpful way, advocating for those who were vulnerable or unable to speak for themselves, and holding space for sensitive conversation with compassion. 

I witnessed the limits of systems that prioritise protocols over presence, and I felt called to work in a way that was slower, more intentional, and more aligned with my values; centred on the whole person, their wellbeing and experience, not just ticking boxes and fighting fire. 

Because I am familiar with the medical setting, dynamics and jargon, I am a grounding steady presence through a medicalised birth, maintaining a sense of calm, peace and power through any twists or turns birth may take. I support all types of birth without judgement, and have no emotional investment in the choices or method of birth you choose, as long as you feel well informed and free to decide. I am here to support you through your journey, however that looks. 

The Doula I am today

Being a doula allows me to bring together my clinical experience, my ability to hold space for rites of passage with tenderness and compassion, and my embodied, intuitive practices, into something that feels grounded and deeply aligned.

My work as a doula centres on:

Mindful presence, and truly hearing the voices of my clients. 

Honouring birth and death as a rite of passage

Holistic and somatic, mind, body and soul preparation and processing. 

Nervous system regulation and emotional safety

Breath and body-based practices for labour and birth. 

Supporting partners and loved ones with calm and grounded presence, so they feel confident and empowered

I work gently and intuitively, creating space to prepare for, and experience birth and other rites of passage in a way that feels authentic, embodied and deeply supported.

I don’t believe the body needs to be mastered or controlled. I believe it asks to be met with presence and trust, to feel safe enough to soften and release.

If my approach resonates, I’d love to walk alongside you as you journey through your rite of passage in a way that honours all you are, and all you are becoming.  

Book your connection call here.

Training and Experience

After I had already spent several years supporting friends through their pregnancies, births and parenting journeys, I finally undertook a Birth and Postnatal Doula preparation course in 2022. I also undertook an End Of Life Doula foundation course in 2025. 

I have completed numerous further training courses, including on topics such as Hypnobirthing, Birth Debriefing, Trauma informed care, Biomechanics, Rebozo for birth, Closing the Bones, Holding Women's Circles, and Supporting Freebirth.  

I regularly attend women's circles, yoga classes, somatic retreats, and connect with my local community of birth workers. I believe that these regular practices enable me to feel well resourced and supported to offer this deep and energetically demanding work. 

I have experience supporting a wide range of births in the home and hospital settings, including undisturbed physiological birth and Freebirth, instrumental and planned C-sections. I have supported many women choosing to birth 'outside of guidelines,' and through various complications, such as longer pregnancies (42+ weeks), high BMI, medical complications, suspected 'big babies,' breech babies and more, and I truly believe that choices about the birth path should always remain with the woman.  

Doulas without Borders and Free Support. 

I proudly volunteer my time to support those experiencing pregnancy and birth through hardship. 

Doulas without borders provides accessible pregnancy, birth and postnatal support for people in financial hardship who are, for example:

Survivors and victims of domestic/sexual violence

Experiencing displacement and people seeking refuge/asylum

Experiencing homelessness

Experiencing/expecting to experience pregnancy or infant loss 

Aged under 20, without adequate support

Survivors and victims of trafficking and modern-day slavery

For more information click here.

Ocasionally, clients have unused sessions that they choose to donate to a mother in need. If you would like to discuss support for yourself or someone you know who is unable to pay, please do reach out. 

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